Work with what you have. If your strategy is not working, change it. Do what is right even when it is not necessarily best for you at that moment. Make good relationships. Learn a lot. Learn a lot about something. Unless you are smart enough, you probably need a college education to get the job you want. Keep good relationships. Graduate. Attain independence. Maintain independence. Show you can be a productive member of our society. Be enthusiastic about something. Be passionate about something. Continue to set new goals. Achieve as many as you can. Use your passion and enthusiasm to build a career. Have your own life. Meet a lot of people. Find someone; you cannot go through this alone. Support each other. Find a home. Start a family. Raise your children so that one-day they have their own lives. Press on.