{"id":484,"date":"2019-07-15T23:14:57","date_gmt":"2019-07-15T23:14:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/scholarblogs.emory.edu\/noodlenarratives\/?p=484"},"modified":"2019-07-15T23:15:37","modified_gmt":"2019-07-15T23:15:37","slug":"the-multi-generational-table","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/scholarblogs.emory.edu\/noodlenarratives\/2019\/07\/15\/the-multi-generational-table\/","title":{"rendered":"The Multi-generational Table"},"content":{"rendered":"

This family has always been a sporting family. It really started with the grandfather. He was on the tall side \u2013 6 foot 7. He was a star basketball player in high school, but his heart was always on the golf course. Going into his house one would see a large array of trophies and prizes from various tournaments. The most precious prize, little did he know it at the time, was a dining room table he won for his wife. Well to be entirely correct, he got coupons to a furniture store annually for winning their golf tournament. He won it so many times that every piece of furniture from his home was from golfing. This table was a huge Tuscan style wood table with 10 chairs, but many more could squeeze in. I am a distant observer in this story, for this table was before my time. I write as an outsider, for I have no memory of the table itself. It was my mother\u2019s childhood table, and mine as well, when I was much younger. Using the informal interview anthropological method, I am conducting this study in order to have a deeper understanding of my family\u2019s background, and to have a better recollection of my childhood. My intention is to use an informal interview because the best information I can observe is through my mother\u2019s recollection and storytelling. Gillian Crowther in Eating Culture An Anthropological Guide to Food<\/em> states \u201cThe everyday reality of life is most strongly felt and experienced by individuals\u201d and because of this I knew my mother is the best person to talk to about her family table because she has seen it from multiple perspectives, both as mother and child, and because she has experienced the table in every stage of its life. My mother was happy to discuss this with me, and I only had to ask one question to really get the stories rolling.<\/p>\n

The table started its family life off in my grandmother\u2019s (my mother\u2019s mother) home. There it was so large it filled the entire front room, a happy and welcoming place to all that entered the house. Outside of meals, this table held many different purposes. On this table my mother had all her childhood holidays and momentous occasions. She did her college applications there. The most fun she said her, and her sister ever had was doing each other\u2019s wedding invitations on that same table. Her grandmother passed the recipe of my family\u2019s pasta sauce down to her mother there. The table then moved onto my family in Pittsburgh, where my older brother and I would always eat and my mother became the chef, and the cuisine shifted to a heartier Irish cuisine, her specialties being shepherd\u2019s pie and soda bread. Today the table sits in the center of my cousin\u2019s home, where Polish feasts cover the table. The table, no matter where it is, has always been the centerpiece and meeting space of one big happy family.<\/p>\n

Before meals, this table was a meeting place, where children would come into the room, slam down their book bags, and get an afternoon snack. A happy mother would look on, planning the night\u2019s meal. After clearing the table, the children would help to set up for dinner. The cook, often my grandmother\/mother, would then set down the food, always family style, and the meal would begin. A family tradition was set at this table. It is called \u201cbest and worst\u201d where everyone would have to share the best and worst things that happened during the day. With this simple game, the table built daily connections between siblings and parents. Many stories and cheering up took place at the table. After the meals is when the table really came to life. On one side of the table, there was always a dedicated study area, where one could do homework and prepare for the next day, the other housed the \u201ccard sharks.\u201d My mother recalls there seemingly always being a game of cards taking place with my grandmother and other relatives after big meals, and the table was the center of it.<\/p>\n

In conclusion, this kitchen table\u2019s greatest quality is what is consistent across my family\u2019s different cultures. The ability to be a central, welcoming comfort zone for generations has been what makes this table so significant. The table is large enough to fit everyone with all the homemade food one could eat. As these stories in the interview unfolded, I feel a warmth and connection to my family\u2019s history, though I do not remember the table itself. I remember emotions mixed with smells and flavors of family\u2019s specialty foods, and I am grateful for the center of our lives that was this table.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

This family has always been a sporting family. It really started with the grandfather. He was on the tall side \u2013 6 foot 7. He was a star basketball player in high school, but his heart was always on the golf course. Going into his house one would see a large array of trophies and … <\/p>\n

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