Unit 10: Molly Nestor

This week we read ‘Knowing’ the Surrogate Body in Israel by Elly Teman and Gestational Surrogacy in Iran: Uterine Kinship in Shia Thought and Practice by Shirin Garmaroudi Naef. Through interviews and participant observation field work, both ethnographic works take a look at surrogacy and its place in Israeli and Shia cultures, respectively.

The goal of Elly Teman’s work is to analyze surrogacy as a “cultural anomaly” in Israel and how it has made its own place in Israel’s pronatalist society.  She uses the concept of ‘authoritative knowledge’ to convey how “surrogates, intended mothers, and health professionals attempt to solve the anomaly of surrogacy in practice” (263). Through intuitive, medical, and technological knowledge, Teman provides insight on the surrogacy process women experience in Israel. Intuitive knowledge refers to the situation in which the intended mother ‘knows’ the pregnant body of the surrogate, providing a way for the intended mother to claim maternity. Statements from both surrogates and intended mothers mention how each woman knew she had chosen the ‘right woman’ to go through this process with her as soon as the women had met. This intuitive knowledge also served to minimize the connection between the surrogate and baby while emphasizing the intended mother’s ‘meant to be’ relationship with the unborn child through an equal partnership in the pregnancy.

Teman uses ultrasound experiences to convey another way in which surrogates extract themselves from the pregnancy and allow the intended mothers to go through the pregnancy experience as if they were pregnant. During ultrasound screenings, the surrogate “symbolically becomes a silent participant, a transparent medium,” allowing intended mothers to view the fetus as an “individual entity, alone on the screen, as if removed from the surrogate’s body” (268). Doctors and ultrasound technicians would address the intended mother and father during the screenings, reemphasizing the removal of the surrogate from the situation, both emotionally and physically, while simultaneously allowing the intended parents to feel more connected to the pregnancy process.

Doctors and other medical practioners play an important role in the surrogacy process through their “effort to designate the intended mother’s status” by addressing her as “the mother” and directing all medical knowledge to her instead of the surrogate patient (271). Along with the equal partnership between the two women, medical practioners work to create a unitary patient construction, treating the intended mother the same way they would the surrogate, providing her with all the same care. The concept of a ‘hybrid patient’ address the abnormalities that surrogacy presents (i.e. having two separate patients) and allows for normal practices to ensue after birth.

The 3 different forms of knowledge confirm the intended mother’s maternal identity and serve to “confirm, rather than challenge, the Jewish-Israeli cultural belief system” (276). I found the emphasis of an equal partnership between the surrogate and intended mother to be a very interesting experience. Also, the emphasis from the doctors and medical staff of the intended mother’s maternal identity played a very important role throughout the process, a role that I  was previously unaware of.

Questions:

  • Do you think Teman’s analysis effectively addresses the “anomaly” of surrogacy in a pronatalist society such as Israel?
  • Do you think all societies should promote an equal partnership approach between the intended mother and surrogate? Does this help surrogacy fit a more culturally norm framework of pregnancy?
  • What type of relationship should exist between a surrogate woman and the child that is born? Should such a relationship exist at all?

In our second reading, Shirin Garmaroudi Naef explored surrogacy in Shia thought and practice and the relationships established through surrogacy and uterine kinship. Through analysis of Islamic legal texts, consultations with Shia scholars, and ethnographic field research, Naef attempts to “show how juridical meaning ascribed to physiological facts and bodily substances. . . leaves room for the legal permissibility of gestational surrogacy” (160).

In the first part of her chapter, Naef mentions that the “notions of contact and transfer of bodily substances has become an approach for studying kinship and assisted reproduction in Muslim societies” (161). Naef argues that the definition of incest in Shia thought does not depend on the transfer or contact of bodily substances, but rather on, “the illegitimate physical act of illicit sexual intercourse, and not on the act of conception itself” (163). With this notion of kinship relation, she conveys why and how Shia thought and practice define surrogacy and assisted reproduction as acceptable.

Naef emphasizes the distinction between directly inserting sperm into a female surrogate’s uterus and implanting an embryo into the surrogate’s uterus, citing it as a reason as to why sperm donation is not entirely forbidden. While it is forbidden in Sunni Islam, Shia scholars argue that, although it is not allowed, fertilization of a women’s egg with donor sperm from a man other than her husband is not analogous to zina (Islamic law concerning unlawful sexual intercourse). Shia authorities authorize such insemination in a lab dish which may then be implanted into the wife’s uterus because, since the sperm is not inserted directly into the wife’s uterus, no forbidden act has taken place. From this, traditional surrogacy is not religiously permissible according to most scholars, but gestational surrogacy is viewed as an acceptable form of assisted reproduction because fertilization takes place outside of the woman’s uterus. Also, this translates into the donation of gametes and embryos. Since the fertilization takes place outside of the woman’s uterus, it is not considered zina and the resulting child is considered legitimate. Thus, embryo transfer and gestational surrogacy are not forbidden according to Shia Islam.

Another distinction made between Sunni and Shia thought is maternal relatedness. Shia jurisprudence “recognizes a bilateral filiation in which maternal filiation acquires the same importance as paternal” (166). Because of this, females play an important role in producing and contributing to the line of descent of a child through ties of uterine kinship. Shia scholars argue maternity is established at conception and, in the case of egg donation or gestational surrogacy, regard the mother as the producer of the ovum. Because of this, a child conceived through gestational surrogacy is not considered to be related to the gestational mother or her family in any way. Likewise, the father is considered to be the man who produces and provides the sperm.

Naef also looks at the issue of breastfeeding and the important position it holds in Islamic legal tradition. According to Islamic customs, the milk bond, “establishes [a] permanent legal realtion[ship] between the child and the milk mother” as well as all members of the milk mother’s kin (173-174). The Shia position on milk kinship states that “kinship relations created by the ‘act’ (and not ‘milk’ as substance, my emphasis) of suckling is equivalent to kinship relations created by nasab” (174). However, according to the viewpoint of Ayatollah Mo’men, a prominent Shia scholar, gestational surrogacy should not be analogous to milk kinship because gestational surrogacy, “does not establish any filiation (nasab) and marriage prohibition (mahramiyat) between the children conceived in this way and the surrogate” (174-175).

The final parts of Naef’s chapter look at the experience of Iranian gestational surrogates and what they think of their experience. While many of the women she interviewed had financial incentives to partake in surrogacy, many of the women also expressed emotional reasons for surrogacy, in order to help friends or family. In both instances, “both groups emphasized the altruistic aspect of the process, helping a woman to become a mother as well as preventing a marriage from falling apart because of infertility” (176). In the end, all women believe that the resulting child does not belong to them, the gestational surrogate, but the contributors of the embryo, the “true parents.” As previously mentioned, no women considered this to be adultery because, according to the Shia notion of adultery, it is only established by the social and physical act of illicit sexual intercourse,” not the biological act, which was an important distinction to be made for many of the women. Also, many women acted as surrogates for siblings who were unable to conceive on their own because they believed it to be better than involving a complete stranger. This wasn’t considered incest because it violated no social or physical illicit act.

One of Naef’s main findings was how surrogates used the language of kinship to “disconnect themselves from the experience of surrogate pregnancy,” while also maintaining “the social order in dealing with infertility” (181-182). She also found throughout her fieldwork that, even in the presence of assisted reproductive technologies, God was still considered to be the divine creator of human life. An important conclusion made by Naef was the importance of women in the establishment of nasab as well as the important place they held in the establishment of kinship ties. Naef showed how Shia scholars applied ancient religious and legal texts to challenge the bioethical dilemmas presented by surrogacy in Iran (183).

Questions:

  • As mentioned in the chapter, is motherhood a biological or legal determination? Does giving birth to a child entitle the person to motherhood?
  • Do you think having your sibling as a surrogate is considered incest? Or do you agree with the Shia definition of incest, in which having your sibling as a surrogate does not violate the realm of incest?
  • Can surrogacy be a truly altruistic act?

5 thoughts on “Unit 10: Molly Nestor”

  1. I was very confused by the Naef’s claim that artificial insemination from a donor is not allowed. As you said, it’s not considered adultery because it does not require the conjugal act. Naef didn’t really develop the claim that artificial insemination is forbidden well enough. She didn’t explain why. Perhaps the only reason is based on the kinship relations Martia Inhorn explored in more detail. She said men said that the child would not be theirs. Naef focused a lot more than Martia Inhorn on the female contribution to procreation. She projected the notion of female seed that we saw in last week’s reading in the feminist article. But Naef saw it is a way of acknowledging women’s importance in reproduction rather than only acknowledging it to the extent that women have traits that men have. I think hearing the religious perspective on procreation puts the feminist article into more context and shows that religion doesn’t devalue women.

    1. Rachel,
      I completely agree with you when you mention that Naef didn’t support his artificial insemination claim well enough. He seemed to focus more on the concept of female significance when reproducing. I feel he did this because in Islamic culture males are usually seen as the head of a household and assert control of their wives and children. By mentioning the importance of females in producing children, he attempts to break this notion up a little bit. Through doing this, I believe he formed a path to begin his reasonings on why Shia Muslims might allow surrogacy as opposed to Sunni Muslims. I really enjoyed your insight on the topic and it helped me understand the reading in a more developed manner.

  2. Hi, Molly! You did a great job detailing the main points of this week’s readings. Like Petar and Rachel, I also found Naef’s artificial insemination claims a little underdeveloped, especially compared to the other topics she discussed, such as the relationship between the child and the “milk mother.” I was very intrigued by her analysis of the Sunni and Shia traditions and how different their interpretations of the same text were in practice. Like you mentioned, it surprised me that what was considered “zina” in Sunni Islam isn’t considered “zina” in Shia Islam because there is no physical act of sexual intercourse in surrogacy or in-vitro fertilization.

    I wanted to provide my opinions to some of the discussion questions you posed throughout your blog post. You asked whether or not there should be a relationship between a surrogate mother and the child she carried to term. I think this is a very interesting question, but it is one that should be answered by the biological parents and the surrogate mother. Based on the readings and the documentary, Made in India, that we watched in class last week, every surrogacy example is unique in its own way. Due to this, I don’t think there should be one universal law or governmental ruling on what the relationship should be like between a surrogate mother and child. In addition, there were multiple instances in which we discussed a female family member acting as a surrogate mother for an infertile sibling. In these cases, there will be a relationship regardless, and I believe it is up to the biological parents whether or not they want to tell the child that they were born via surrogacy. This ties into another question you asked about whether a familial gestational surrogate would be considered incest. Personally, I do not think that this situation would be incestuous, especially since the genetic information of the child comes from two unrelated sources. In addition, such occurrences are common in the Indian culture, especially if a member of the family cannot have children themselves, therefore I am more open to this idea of familial gestational surrogacy.

  3. Hey Molly,
    Great job! I thought you posed a very interesting question about an equal approach between surrogate mother and intended mother. I can see both sides of the spectrum, where it would be nice for the intended mother to get the full experience of the pregnancy, but also this sometimes creates difficulties in separating the two women after the pregnancy is over. I think that the two women should agree on what approach they would like to prior to the surrogacy and then stick to that. Again, they should also decide whether or not the surrogate should have any relationship, but I tend towards thinking that she should not just to avoid any undue confusion for the child.
    I also think that having a sibling as a surrogate can be complicated. I think it should not be considered if none of the siblings genetic information is used or if the donor does not come from the same side of the family (the husband should not use the egg of his sister). As we discussed in class, pregnancy takes a lot out of a woman. It takes roughly ten years to regain all that is lost in a pregnancy, so it would be an extremely generous act if someone were to do it out of the kindness of her heart. I think it can be truly altruistic, but that would surely be rare.
    -Ben

  4. Hi Molly,

    I’d like to respond to one of your questions regarding Naef’s article. I do agree with the statements of the Shia Ayatollahs that the mother on the baby should be the genetic mother. Obviously I can’t prove this with a passage from the bible or the Quran, but the surrogate and the couple enter a contract with the goal of the couple becoming parents. In my opinion surrogacy would not make any sense if in the end the genetic mother/ the woman who wants to become a doctor will not become a mother.

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