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by Jade Wu

Memories, Home, and Navigating Borders

Spring 2023

Collection curated by Twisha Dimri, Vanessa Sogan, and Jade Wu

Introduction

This collection explores the experiences of LGBTQ+ individuals and their families as they navigate identity and build connections within their communities. This collection brings together a diverse range of materials, from memoirs to films, photographs, and children’s literature, to offer intimate insights into the interplay between personal emotions and the structural challenges of acceptance and inclusion. Linking individual memories to a family’s history and the regional issues in a global context, this collection is a reminder of the resilience and love in the collective experience of the LGBTQ+ community. It invites us together to rethink history, acknowledge the present challenges, and imagine a transformation in the future generation.

Physical Display

Life Stories: Love, Loss, Longings

This section presents a collection of memoirs of LGBTQ+ individuals and LGBTQ+ families. The powerful narratives offer a glimpse of the joy and struggles in the LGBTQ+ experience and invite a more nuanced understanding of their journey of navigating identity and familial relationships. 

Green, Jesse. The Velveteen Father: An Unexpected Journey to Parenthood. Ballantine Books, 2000.

Jesse Green’s memoir details his experience becoming a dad while living as a gay man in New York City. Green eventually learns what it means to be a father and builds a loving family with his husband and child through the challenges and triumphs of surrogacy and adoption.

Malcolm Belc, Krys. The Natural Mother of the Child: a Memoir of Nonbinary Parenthood. Counterpoint, 2021.

The memoir by Keys Malcolm Belc narrates the experience of gestational parenthood as a nonbinary, transmasculine parent. Their intimate writing explores the challenges and joys of navigating gender identity and family dynamics. The reflection on their experience with body, social records, and family life also offers perspectives into the interplay between parenthood and gender, as well as the deep struggle with social recognition.

Reang, Putsata. Ma and Me: a Memoir. MCD, Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 2022.

This autobiography by Putsata Reang explores her relationship with her mother, Ma, their experiences as refugees from Cambodia, and her struggle with identity. The memoir is a deeply personal reflection on the complexities of family, culture, and sexuality. It delves into the family’s history, and how it weaves into the larger historical and political context of the Khmer Rouge regime in Cambodia.

Royster, Francesca T. Choosing Family: A Memoir of Queer Motherhood and Black Resistance. Abrams Press, 2023

This is an autobiography of Francesca Royster, a professor of English at DePaul University, in Chicago. It is a memoir of her experiences as a Black queer woman navigating adoption and parenting and her childhood memories of home in Chicago’s South Side. She weaves her experiences and memories into queer and gender theory to imagine a fluid family configuration.

Navigating Spaces: Home, School, and Community

This section offers a range of readings that address the struggles of LGBTQ+ individuals with family and social dynamics. It explores the systemic issues in a heteronormative culture and provides a candid account of the complexities of familial and societal relationships, and their impact on one’s place in the world.

Hays, Katie. Family of Origin, Family of Choice. William. B. Eerdmans Publishing Company, 2021

Testimonials from LGBTQ Christians about coming out and navigating family dynamics in the Church. It explores affirming and non-affirming, biological and found family, and acceptance.

Shelton, Michael. Family Pride: WHAT LGBT Families Should Know about Navigating Home, School, and Safety in Their Neighborhoods. Beacon Press, 2013.

This guidebook provides information and practical guidance for LGBTQ families dealing with the difficulties of bringing up children in a heteronormative culture. The book provides helpful information for both families and allies on a number of topics, such as legal rights, school advocacy, health care, and community development.

Gottlieb, Andrew R. Sons Talk about Their Gay Fathers: Life Curves. Harrington Park Press, 2003.

Gottlieb writes about the impacts on the sons whose fathers disclose as gay. He uses psychoanalytic theory to examine the stories of sons and their fathers, presenting a comprehensive picture of their evolving relationships. 

A New Frontier: From Love to Imaginations

In this section, one can explore children’s literature and film that provide representation for LGBTQ+ families. Through engaging visuals and storytelling, these works build a conversation with the public and inspire their actions toward creating a more inclusive and welcoming environment for all. 

Donoghue, Emma, and Caroline Hadilaksono. The Lotterys More or Less. Arthur A. Levine Books, an Imprint of Scholastic Inc., 2018.

“The Lotterys More or Less” is a children’s book about a large, gay, and multi-ethnic family. The story follows the nine-year-old Sumac Lottery as she prepares for the holiday filled with family traditions, only to have her plans disrupted by an ice storm. The delightful story explores the themes of multiculturalism and family dynamics. 

Newman, Lesléa. Heather Has Two Mommies. Alyson Wonderland, 1989.
Newman, Lesléa. Daddy, Papa, and Me. Tricycle Press, 2009


Written by Lesléa Newman, Heather Has Two Mommies and Daddy, Papa, and Me are two groundbreaking works in children’s literature and LGBTQ+ literature. With simple language and engaging visuals, the book follows young children’s perspectives as they learn about her family and diverse family structures. It has an important role in promoting understanding, acceptance, and inclusion among young readers.

Danon, Marcello. La Cage Aux Folles. Criterion Collection, Les Productions Artistes Associés Da.Ma. Produzione, 1978, Universal Product Code: 715515109819.

Adapted from a French play written by Jean Poiret, “La Cage aux Folles” is a musical about a middle-aged gay couple, Georges and Albin, running a drag nightclub. They agree to hide their sexual identities when they are meeting the ultra-conservative parents of their son’s fiancée. The comic scenario sends out a warm message of embracing diverse gender expressions and family love.

For more information:

Here includes a list of resources for further exploration.

At Fulton County Library

Adeagbo, Oluwafemi. The Dynamics and Complexities of Interracial Gay Families In South Africa: a New Frontier: Gay Relationships In South Africa. Springer, 2019.

“The Dynamics and Complexities of Interracial Gay Families in South Africa” is a scholarly work exploring the challenges faced by interracial gay families in South Africa. It provides an in-depth account of a qualitative study on domestic settings including division of housework and power negotiation, social support, coping strategies, and conflict management. The book addresses the intersectionality of sexuality, gender, racial identity, and resources, and it seeks to answer how the context of South Africa’s racial segregation and transformations influence relationships and resilience strategies.

Preston, John, and Michael Lowenthal, editors. Friends and Lovers: Gay Men Write about the Families They Create. Dutton, 1997.

This anthology features essays written by well-known gay authors such as Andrew Holleran, Michael Nava, and William Haywood Henderson. The book explores the concept of family in the LGBTQ+ community, with some authors sharing about biological families, and others recounting how they created their own family units. The book highlights the importance of a sense of history and continuity, support and acceptance, and love and respect in defining family. 

Snow, Judith E. How It Feels to Have a Gay or Lesbian Parent: A Book by Kids for Kids of All Ages. Harrington Park Press, 2004

A book that represents the thoughts, feelings, and experiences of people who have a gay or lesbian parent. The book is a candid conversation with young individuals, who discuss their unique life experiences and the effects of homophobia on a family.

Kaeser, Gigi, and Peggy Gillespie. Love Makes a Family: Portraits of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Parents and Their Families. University of Massachusetts Press, 1999.

This is a collection of photographs and personal narratives that help paint a picture of what life is like being a part of an LGBTQ family in the U.S.

Costa, Mari. Life of Melody. Seven Seas Entertainment, 2021.

A graphic novel that was first released as a webcomic about a fairy godfather and a beast man raising a human baby together. The story is written and beautifully illustrated by Mari Costa, a comic artist from Brazil.

Digital Resources:

“Two Dads, Two Moms: Gay Couples and Their Families.” Filmoption International, 2013.

This documentary examines the lives of several same-sex couples and their children, showing the struggles and successes of their nontraditional family systems. The movie shows the resilience and love of LGBTQ families while addressing issues like homophobia and prejudice that these families have dealt with.

“Throwaway Teens”. ABC News Productions, 2013

In this program, ABC News anchor Connie Chung investigates the struggles of young people who are rejected by their families because of their sexual orientation and end up homeless. The program features case studies of three teenagers in Los Angeles, Des Moines, and New York City, highlighting issues such as homelessness, child prostitution, drug abuse, and societal attitudes toward homosexuality. The program also showcases services and resources offered by organizations to help homeless youth.

“Making Grace”. First Run Features, 2005.

Ann Krsul and Leslie Sullivan, a lesbian couple, want to create a family and raise a child together. They explore every aspect of the process – from selecting a sperm donor to deciding who will carry the baby, to attending classes and handling family dynamics. Challenges and joy accompany their journey with motherhood and family life.

“Conceiving Family”. Watershed Productions Inc., 2011.

This documentary follows filmmaker Amy Bohigian’s and her partner as they adopt 15-month-old twins, highlighting the legal, social, and personal challenges during the process of same-sex adoption. The film also shows other families and couples dealing with issues such as the high cost of surrogacy. It sheds light on the complexities of starting a family as LGBTQ+ people.

Child Welfare Information Gateway. (2021). Working with LGBTQ+ families in foster care and adoption. U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Administration for Children and Families, Children’s Bureau. https://www.childwelfare.gov/pubs/f-profbulletin/

A resource guide developed by the Children’s Bureau, a federal agency under the US Department of Health and Human Services. The guide provides information about LGBTQ+ families, foster care, and adoption.

Local Libraries

Madrone, Kelly Huegel. LGBTQ: The Survival Guide for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Questioning Teens. Free Spirit Publishing, 2019.

This guidebook aims to provide LGBTQ+ affiliated teenagers with historical information and real world advice and help them navigate identities in a complex world. 

Deschamps, David, and Singer L. Bennett. LGBTQ STATS: Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer People by the Numbers. NEW Press, 2017.

This book provides statistics and data that are crucial to understanding the LGBTQ revolution. The data in this book pertains to numerous topics – from family and marriage to criminal justice, law and policy. It also takes a global lens and illustrates the state of LGBTQ discrimination.

Quist, Jeremy, and Justin Tindall. LGBTQ without Borders: International Life. Mason Crest, 2020.

This book celebrates the global diversity of the LGBTQ community. It examines how society and cultures shape individual identities in a variety of ways.

Harris, Duchess, and Rebecca Rowell. Growing up LGBTQ. Abdo Publishing, 2020.

This book is for adolescents who identify with the LGBTQ community. It discusses various problems that young people face, like coming out, mental health issues, bullying, discrimination, etc. It also shares about finding a community and building a supportive family structure.

Apelqvist, Eva. LGBTQ Families: The Ultimate Teen Guide. The Scarecrow Press, Inc., 2013.

LGBTQ families are impacted by all issues that the community at large faces, and this book offers encouragement, insight, and resources to young people looking for answers and clarity.

National Libraries

Library of Congress:

Library Of Congress. Pride in the Library. Washington, D.C.: Library of Congress, -06-08, 2017. Video. Retrieved from the Library of Congress, <www.loc.gov/item/2021690551/>.

Curators of the Library of Congress display and describe items from the collections that were part of a special pop-up exhibit, “Pride in the Library,” featuring the works of LGBTQ+ creators and representations of LGBTQ+ life in America.

Through History to Equality: George Chauncey. 2022. Video. Retrieved from the Library of Congress, <www.loc.gov/item/webcast-10504/>.

Columbia University history professor George Chauncey is the Library of Congress 2022 Kluge Center honoree, cited for his pathbreaking work on LGBTQ+ history in the United States. His work was critical to several gay rights Supreme Court decisions, including the right of gay people to marry in all states. This video showcases his work and gay life and culture over the past century.

Levush, Ruth. Israel: Gay Couple Recognized as Parents Without Genetic Testing. 2016. Web Page. Retrieved from the Library of Congress, <www.loc.gov/item/global-legal-monitor/2016-08-30/israel-gay-couple-recognized-as-parents-without-genetic-testing/>.

(Aug. 30, 2016) “On August 7, 2016, the Tel Aviv Yafo Family Court recognized for the first time, without genetic testing, the parentage of a child born to a gay couple from a surrogate mother abroad. While determining that the plaintiffs had successfully proved their parentage by other means, the court held that by refusing to use genetic testing the plaintiffs had wasted the court’s time, and therefore they were not eligible for reimbursement for court-related expenses. “

National Library of Education:

Jubas, Kaela.  “Equity and internationalization on campus intersecting or colliding discourses for LGBTQ people? by Kaela Jubas, Boston, MA: Brill Sense Publishers, 2018. 162 pp., ISBN: 978-90-04-38091-2.” (2021): 99-101.

The book explores how post-secondary institutions adapt to fit into a globalized system and focus on the intersection of equity and internationalization on Canadian campuses, specifically in relation to LGBTQ people. The book is divided into nine chapters and examines four major tensions: inclusion/exclusion, safety/risk, “freedom” to come out/expectation to pass, and ally/Other, It also identifies five dimensions in which they are organized: Cultural, Community, Physical, Career, and Psychic. The book provides a critical analysis of the experiences of students, staff, and faculty at post-secondary institutions and their negotiation of personal/professional growth.

Eva Apelqvist. LGBTQ Families : The Ultimate Teen Guide. Scarecrow Press, 2013. EBSCOhost, search.ebscohost.com/login.aspx?direct=true&db=nlebk&AN=638789&site=ehost-live&scope=site.

The guide focuses on the challenges that teenagers face while growing up in households with LGBTQ parents. It provides guidance, insights, and resources to help them navigate their unique family dynamics. The book features personal stories from LGBTQ teens and adults, as well as strategies for dealing with societal challenges related to politics, religion, media, and bullying. It aims to educate young adults with LGBTQ parents, LGBTQ teens, allies, and anyone interested in understanding and embracing the diversity of modern families.

by Anushka Nayak

Queer Representation in Comics, Gaming, and Graphic Novels

Spring 2023

Collection curated by Miiah Carter, Cyreema Marshall, and Anushka Nayak

Until 1989, the Comics Code Authority forbade any mention, depiction, or suggestion of “homosexuality” in comics bearing the CCA seal. But what the CCA didn’t anticipate was the response of LGBTQ+ artists and cartoonists, who challenged the ban by representing their communities on the comic strips that flourished throughout the underground world of “comix.” Used as a tool for raising awareness, exploring the social contexts of gender/sexuality, and affirming the existence of diverse identities, comics have played an essential role in introducing LGBTQ+ themes to a mainstream audience. To offer a look into the current world of queer representation in comics, graphic novels, and gaming, we gathered materials that use illustration as their primary medium to depict various queer identities, with the goal of creating a collection that reflects the expansive ways in which comics have been used to push the boundaries of queer characters that exist in popular imagination.

The Physical Collection

1. Heartstopper by Alice Oseman

This graphic novel series welcomes us into the wonderfully awkward world of high school romance and self-discovery. In Volume 1, we are introduced to Nick and Charlie in charming two-color artwork, and follow their respective coming-of-age journeys as they navigate friendship, coming out, mental illness, and budding feelings for each other. Originally a Webtoon comic, Alice Oseman’s charming take on teenage love will warm even the coldest of hearts!

2. Our Work Is Everywhere: An Illustrated Oral History of Queer & Trans Resistance by Rose Syan

Through bold, surrealist imagery, Rose Syan’s non-fiction graphic novel offers narratives of survival and resistance from queer and trans communities across America, including themes of BIPOC mental health, disability and healthcare practice, sex worker activism, and more.

3. Mooncakes by Suzanne Walker

In a world of witchcraft, occult rituals, and demons, Mooncakes follows teenage witch Nova, who loans out spell books at her grandmother’s bookshop and investigates supernatural occurrences in her New England town. On a fateful night in the woods, she encounters Tam, a genderqueer werewolf and Nova’s childhood crush, and she is suddenly thrust into a battle against the dark forces that threaten Tam as latent feelings between the two are rekindled. In this joyful fantasy, readers embark on an adventure centered around themes of family, love, and of course, plenty of magic!

4. Drama by Raina Telgemeier

Drama centers on the story of theater-lover Callie, who joins her school’s drama production crew and is suddenly confronted with the all-too-familiar tween experiences of confusing crushes, middle school drama, and juggling friendships. A master of the middle grade graphic novel, Raina Telegmeier offers readers a coming-of-age story all about teamwork and inclusion, introducing a cast of characters that you’ll absolutely fall in love with. 

5. Far Sector by Jamal Campbell & N.K. Jemisin

It’s been over 500 years since the City Enduring, a metropolis at the edge of the universe, has experienced violent crime, due to a controversial movement by the Emotion Exploit to erase its citizens’ full range of feelings. When a brutal murder rattles the social order of this strange world, Rookie Sojourner “Jo” Mullein must rely on her unique abilities as Green Lantern and the only human in her sector to solve the crime. In this award winning sci-fi murder mystery, Jemisin and Campbell present a refreshing twist on the Green Lantern legacy that you won’t be able to put down. 

6. Poison Ivy: Thorns by Kody Keplinger & Sara Kipin

There’s something strange about red-haired Pamela Insley, the girl who won’t let anyone see past the curtains, who obsessively looks after a few plants, who doesn’t trust other people. When Pamela meets Alice Oh, a cute goth girl and the only person that makes Pamela consider putting her guard down, she discovers that this new possibility of love is endangered by the dark secrets hidden within the thorns of Isley house– secrets that could turn deadly and destroy the only person who ever cared about Pamela, or as her mother liked to call her…Ivy. In Poison Ivy: Thorns, bestselling author Kody Keplinger and artist Sara Kipin reimagine an iconic DC antihero with a gothic-horror twist.  

7. Paper Girls by Brian K. Vaughan

There’s something strange about red-haired Pamela Insley, the girl who won’t let anyone see past the curtains, who obsessively looks after a few plants, who doesn’t trust other people. When Pamela meets Alice Oh, a cute goth girl and the only person that makes Pamela consider putting her guard down, she discovers that this new possibility of love is endangered by the dark secrets hidden within the thorns of Isley house– secrets that could turn deadly and destroy the only person who ever cared about Pamela, or as her mother liked to call her…Ivy. In Poison Ivy: Thorns, bestselling author Kody Keplinger and artist Sara Kipin reimagine an iconic DC antihero with a gothic-horror twist.  

8. The Essential Dykes to Watch Out For by Alison Bechdel

Settle in to this wittily illustrated soap opera (Bechdel calls it “half op-ed column and half endless serialized Victorian novel”) of the lives, loves, and politics of Mo, Lois, Sydney, Sparrow, Ginger, Stuart, Clarice, and the rest of the cast of cult-fav characters. Most of them are lesbians, living in a midsize American city that may or may not be Minneapolis. Bechdel’s brilliantly imagined countercultural band of friends–academics, social workers, bookstore clerks–fall in and out of love, negotiate friendships, raise children, switch careers, and cope with aging parents. Bechdel fuses high and low culture–from foreign policy to domestic routine, hot sex to postmodern theory–in a serial graphic narrative “suitable for humanists of all persuasions.

9. Blue is the Warmest Color by Julie Maroh

Clementine is a junior in high school who seems average enough: she has friends, family, and the romantic attention of the boys in her school. When her openly gay best friend takes her out on the town, she wanders into a lesbian bar where she encounters Emma: a punkish, confident girl with blue hair. Their attraction is instant and electric, and Clementine finds herself in a relationship that will test her friends, parents, and her own ideas about herself and her identity.

10. Flamer by Mike Curato

Everyone’s going through changes–but for Aiden, the stakes feel higher. As he navigates friendships, deals with bullies, and spends time with Elias (a boy he can’t stop thinking about), he finds himself on a path of self-discovery and acceptance. Award-winning author and artist Mike Curato draws on his own experiences in this debut graphic novel, telling a difficult story with humor, compassion, and love.

10. On a Sunbeam by Tillie Walden

Award-winning cartoonist Tillie Walden released On a Sunbeam following her winning graphic novel memoir. On a Sunbeam is a science fiction graphic novel set in a spacefaring world following Mia with a restoration as they retrofit abandoned buildings on alien worlds. The story is told non-linearly as Mia goes through life altering experiences trying to come to terms with her past and her potential. 

Resources for more information!

  • Atlanta Fulton Libraries: Digital Resources
    • Fine: a Comic About Gender – Rhea Ewing, OverDrive Read
      • “Adopting a pseudo-documentary format, graphic artist Rhea Ewing creates an elegantly illustrated portrait of the intricacies of gender expression with insights from interviewees across America. Fine is an elegantly illustrated celebration of the transgender community, producing fiercely honest stories about transitioning, queer adolescence, intersectionality, and grappling with identity. For anyone eager to define gender on their own terms, Fine offers many valuable perspectives you won’t want to miss.” 
    • Drawn this Way – Streaming Video
      • “From Tom of Finland to Bugs Bunny in a dress, animation has long been a place where artists can unleash and explore their sexuality. In this documentary, Andy Cheng and Cara Connors dive into the pages of comic books, animated series, films, and even video games to discover the LGBTQ characters portrayed, and to answer questions such as, how did these artists get their start; how did the genre develop; are these portrayals taken seriously in the mainstream?”
    • Manifestations of Queerness in Video Games – Gaspard Pelurson, OverDrive Read
      • “Situated at the intersection of New Media, Game, Cultural and Queer Studies, the book navigates diverse interspecies relationships, queer villains from the past, Pokémon memes on border politics, flânerie in post-industrial cities and one-sided erotic fights. It provides new critical engagements with the works of Jose Esteban Muñoz, Bonnie Ruberg, Guy Debord and Jack Halberstam, examining queer representation, gaming subcultures and dissident play practices. Making the bold claim that video games might be the queerest medium today, this book provides organic, self-reflective and, ultimately, thought-provoking thinking in which both games and gamers are queered.”
    • Good White Queers – Kai Linke, OverDrive Read
      • “How do white queer people portray our own whiteness? Can we, in the stories we tell about ourselves, face the uncomfortable fact that, while queer, we might still be racist? If we cannot, what does that say about us as potential allies in intersectional struggles? A careful analysis of Dykes To Watch Out For and Stuck Rubber Baby by queer comic icons Alison Bechdel and Howard Cruse traces the intersections of queerness and racism in the neglected medium of queer comics, while a close reading of Jaime Cortez’s striking graphic novel Sexile/Sexilio offers glimpses of the complexities and difficult truths that lie beyond the limits of the white queer imaginary.”
    • “2023 Book Squad Goals: Read a LGBTQIA+ Graphic Novel or Manga” – LPL Staff-Created Booklist
  • Regional Resources (available on OverDrive Read)
    • Humor, Homosexuality, and the Southern Literary Canon – Tison Pugh (2017)
      • Published by Southern Literary Studies
    • Multicultural Comics: From Zap to Blue Beetle – edited by Frederick Luis Aldama (2010)
      • Published by University of Texas Press
    • Howard Cruse – Janell Utell (2023)
      • Published by University Press of Mississippi
    • Comics and Pop Culture: Adaptation from Panel to Frame – Barry Keith Grant & Scott Henderson (2019)
      • Published by University of Texas Press
    • The LGBTQ+ Comics Studies Reader: Critical Openings, Future Directions – edited by Alison Halsall & Jonathan Warren (2022)
      • Published by University Press of Mississippi
  • Resources from National Organizations (WorldCat)
    • The Wicked + The Divine – Kieron Gillen (2014)
      • God is a DJ — and a singer, and a rapper, and a guitar player in this book about ancient gods who reincarnate as pop stars. Main character Laura is a superfan who follows them all, and wants to dance with the devil in the pale moonlight….the devil, in this case, being a beautiful young lady in a white suit. Skeptical reporter Cassandra’s transgender identity is more than just a plot point or a reveal, it influences her walk through the world. And tough-guy rapper Baal’s adoration of genderfluid crooner Inanna is a song played on the heartstrings.
    • My Brother’s Husband – Gengoroh Tagame (2017)
      • From one of Japan’s most notable manga artists: a heartbreaking and redemptive tale of mourning and acceptance that compares and contrasts the contemporary nature of gay tolerance in the East and the West. Yaichi is a work-at-home suburban dad in contemporary Tokyo, married to wife Natsuki, father to young daughter Kana. Their lives are suddenly upended with the arrival at their doorstep of a hulking, affable Canadian named Mike Flanagan, who declares himself the widower of Yaichi’s estranged gay twin, Ryoji. 
    • The Called Us Enemy – George Takei (2019)
      • A stunning graphic memoir recounting actor/author/activist George Takei’s childhood imprisoned within American concentration camps, as one of 120,000 Japanese Americans imprisoned by the U.S. government during World War II. Experience the forces that shaped an American icon — and America itself — in this gripping tale of courage, country, loyalty, and love.
    • The Sims (2000)
      • The Sims is a social simulation video game developed by Maxis and published by Electronic Arts in 2000. It is a simulation of the daily activities of one or more virtual people, called “Sims”, in a suburban household near a fictional city. Players control customizable Sims as they pursue career and relationship goals. All Sims can be directed to fall in love with and engage in romantic interactions with others Sims of either sex.
    • Juicy Mother 2
      • The only current publication that showcases comix by queer artists, the ground-breaking graphic novel Juicy Mother 2 contains richly drawn tales that examine LGBT life from new perspectives: killer dykes chasing romance, a superhero tranny, how Hothead met Chicken, homeboys in love, lesbian internet hook-ups, West Hollywood parties, kids with queer parents, and many other unexpectedly funny depictions of how like-minded individuals have found each other for love, lust, and heartbreak. Thoroughly entertaining adult comix for gender pirates and sexual outlaws, Juicy Mother 2 contains depictions of sweet sex, rough sex, and confusing sex.
by Morgan Ames

LGBTQ+ Families, Parenting & Childhood

Spring 2023 – A Collection curated by Morgan Ames, Michal Mendelbaum Kweller and Lily Su

LGBTQ+ Families refers to any family (biological, adoptive, fostered, or chosen) in which at least one individual identifies as LGBTQ+ (Homosaurus Vocabulary Site, 2019).

Definition

Literature for LGBTQ+ families and children of LGBTQ+ people are an aspect of library cataloging. These books are vital in promoting acceptance and inclusion of diverse families and identities for young readers, and can help both the children of LGBTQ+ individuals and LGBTQ+ children feel seen and valued. Furthermore, representation in literature and media is very important for young people, so they don’t assume there is one binary hegemonic family structure, as the literature and media before this century has asserted.

Cataloging LGBTQ+ children’s literature under appropriate subject headings and keywords can help make these materials more easily accessible to patrons. Some appropriate subject headings might include “Children’s literature — LGBTQ+ themes,” “Gender nonconforming children — Juvenile fiction,” “Same-sex parents — Juvenile fiction,” and “Transgender children — Juvenile literature.”

By ensuring that these materials are properly cataloged and readily available, libraries can play an important role in supporting and empowering and representing LGBTQ+ families. Additionally, making these materials easily accessible can help to create a more inclusive community and promote greater understanding and acceptance of diverse identities for all children.

Physical Materials

BOOKS FOR CHILDREN & ADOLESCENTS

Albertalli, Becky. The Upside of Unrequited. Balzer + Bray, 2017.

“The Upside of Unrequited,” is a young adult novel that features children of LGBTQ+ parents. The main character, Molly, has two mothers and struggles with anxiety, body image, and her own romantic experiences. The book explores the themes of love, identity, and family in a way that is relatable to readers of all backgrounds, but especially resonates with children of LGBTQ+ parents – giving them representation. Through the experiences of Molly and her family, readers can gain a deeper understanding of the unique challenges faced by LGBTQ+ families, and the importance of love and acceptance in creating a supportive and inclusive environment.

Branfman, Jonathan, and Julie Benbassat. You Be You! The Kid’s Guide to Gender, Sexuality, and Family. Jessica Kingsley Publishers, 2021.

“You Be You!” is a guidebook for children to explore gender, sexuality, and diverse families in a fun and interactive way. With engaging illustrations and age-appropriate language, this book provides children with the tools to understand and celebrate differences. The illustrations in the book show children of parents from many different LGBTQ+ backgrounds, creating representations and visualizations of a more diverse and tolerant world.

McClintick, Joanna. ‘Twas the Night Before Pride. Familius LLC, 2021.

‘Twas the Night Before Pride” is a children’s book that celebrates the joy and excitement of Pride festivities. With colorful illustrations and playful rhyming text, this book follows two little kids and their moms before Pride. It discusses and visualizes the bikers, drag queens, queer musicians and others who get ready for the city Pride parade. Since the mixed-race LGBTQ+ family is preparing for their child’s first pride, they tell them the history of the celebration from Stonewall to today.

Zaczek, Alyssa. Martin McLean, Middle School Queen. Sterling Children’s Books, 2020.

This book is for middle-grade readers about a young boy named Martin who aspires to be a drag queen. It follows Martin’s journey as he navigates the trials of middle school and comes to terms with his identity. The book explores themes of self-acceptance, companionship, and family, and provides a favorable representation of LGBTQ+ characters. This book is an excellent resource for parents and guardians who want to introduce their children to varied gender identities and promote acceptance and comprehension of the LGBTQ+ community.

Ford, Michael Thomas. Love & Other Curses. HarperTeen, 2019.

This is a young adult story about a teen named Sam who is cursed with misfortune in romance. It traces his journey as he grapples with his emotions for his closest friend and confronts the enigmas of his family’s history. The novel offers a positive representation of LGBTQ+ individuals and examines themes of self-discovery, recognition, and affection. While the book may not directly pertain to LGBTQ+ parenting, it can function as an excellent resource for parents and caregivers seeking to introduce their children to LGBTQ+ literature and promote tolerance and appreciation of diverse identities.

BOOKS FOR FAMILIES & PARENTS

Shelton, Michael. Family Pride: What LGBT Families Should Know about Navigating Home, School, and Safety in Their Neighborhoods. Beacon Press, 2013.

“Family Pride,” is an essential guidebook for LGBTQ+ families, allies, and community members to navigate challenges related to safety, education, and community involvement. This book allows readers to learn from the experiences of other LGBTQ+ parents and their experiences parenting their children. It gives access to concrete strategies to ensure a safe and inclusive environment for LGBTQ+ families to use to intervene in and resolve difficult community issues, teach their children resiliency skills, and find safe and respectful programs for their children.

Ball, Carlos A. The Right to Be Parents: LGBT Families and the Transformation of Parenthood. NYU Press, 2012.

“The Right to Be Parents” was a groundbreaking book that described the stories of LGBTQ+ parents fighting for legal recognition and protection of their relationships with their children. With a detailed history, firsthand accounts, and ethnography, this book discusses the transformation of American law and society towards greater acceptance of diverse family structures. Readers of “The Right to Be Parents” can gain a deeper understanding of the legal and social challenges faced by LGBTQ+ families, and offers an analysis of the ongoing struggle for LGBTQ+ parental rights.

Reynolds, Andrew. The Children of Harvey Milk: How LGBTQ Politicians Changed the World. Oxford University Press, 2018.

​​In this publication, Andrew Reynolds investigates the influence of LGBTQ lawmakers on the globe, concentrating on the manners in which their political activism has assisted in promoting LGBTQ freedom and recognition. The text focuses on the existence and heritage of Harvey Milk, one of the first openly homosexual lawmakers in America, and looks into the manners in which his endeavor opened the path for future generations of LGBTQ lawmakers. While the publication does not concentrate exclusively on LGBTQ+ parenting and their progeny, it does provide a crucial historical framework for the manners in which LGBTQ individuals have had the capacity to gain greater recognition and visibility in culture. This, in turn, has greatly helped in establishing more opportunities for LGBTQ+ persons to begin their families and raise progeny in a more encouraging and comprehensive environment.

Craven, Christa. Reproductive Losses: Challenges to LGBTQ Family-Making. NYU Press, 2019.

This publication by Christa Craven goes into the experiences of LGBTQ individuals and couples who have undergone reproductive loss, either through miscarriage, stillbirth, or sterility. Craven converses with LGBTQ persons and couples to examine the emotional, societal, and governmental obstacles that can occur when LGBTQ persons decide to start or expand their families. The publication is noteworthy for its contribution to the quite restricted literature on LGBTQ+ parenting and family-making, particularly in its emphasis on the experiences of those who have undergone reproductive loss. The writer’s analysis illuminates the specific difficulties faced by LGBTQ individuals in navigating the complicated and frequently heteronormative landscape of reproductive healthcare and family-building, while also highlighting the resilience and originality of LGBTQ persons and families in discovering alternative paths to parenthood.

Mann, Trent. Including LGBTQ Parented Families In Schools: Research to Inform Policy and Practice. Routledge, 2022.

“Including LGBTQ+ Parented Families in Schools: Research to Inform Policy and Practice” by Trent Mann is a research-focused book that seeks to foster the integration and recognition of LGBTQ+ parented families in schools. The book analyzes the encounters of LGBTQ+ parents as well as their children in the educational system and offers recommendations for policies and procedures to construct more supportive and inclusive learning settings for these families. All in all, this book is a precious resource for instructors and policymakers who aim to establish more comprehensive schools for LGBTQ+ families. The author’s research illuminates the obstacles faced by these families when navigating the educational system, and proposes evidence-based recommendations for constructing more hospitable and accommodating school environments.

Riggs, Damien W. LGBT Parenting and Family Formation. Oxford University Press, 2023.

“LGBT Parenting and Family Formation” by Damien Riggs examines various elements of LGBTQ+ parenting and family establishment. The book encompasses subjects such as aided reproduction, adoption, and fostering, alongside the encounters of LGBTQ+ parents and their children. This work is a very helpful resource for those seeking to comprehend the varied experiences of LGBTQ+ families. The author’s investigations highlight the lawful, societal, and governmental difficulties faced by these families in establishing and sustaining their families, while also emphasizing the persistence and ingenuity of LGBTQ+ parents and their children in dealing with these obstacles.

Bracken, Lydia. Same-Sex Parenting and the Best Interests Principle. Cambridge University Press, 2020.

“Same-Sex Parenting and the Best Interests Principle” by Lydia Bracken is a legal analysis of the best interests principle in family law as it pertains to same-sex parenting. The book scrutinizes how courts have applied this principle in cases involving same-sex parents, and provides insight on how to best guarantee that the privileges of same-sex parents and their children are kept safe. This piece highly pertains to the subject of LGBTQ+ parenting and families as it offers a crucial evaluation of the legal framework concerning same-sex parenting. The author’s analysis highlights the significance of safeguarding the rights of same-sex parents and their children, and offers understanding into how best to ensure that these rights are sustained in the legal system.

Eriksen, Telaina. Unconditional: A Guide to Loving and Supporting Your LGBTQ Child. Mango Publishing Group, 2022.

This is a thorough guidebook for parents and guardians of LGBTQ+ children, providing recommendations on how to navigate difficulties related to coming out, partnerships, and psychological well-being. It highlights the significance of acceptance and absolute love in maintaining a healthy connection between parents and their LGBTQ+ children. It offers useful instruments and references for parents to educate themselves and advocate for their children, while also sharing personal narratives from LGBTQ+ people and their families. The book is an important resource for parents and guardians who want to gain a better understanding of and support for their LGBTQ+ children.

Tompkins, Chris. Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent’s Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground. Mango Media, 2019.

This text is a manual for guardians and parents on how to raise children who are supportive and inclusive of LGBTQ+ individuals. It offers advice on how to have conversations with children about gender and sexuality, as well as strategies for dealing with common issues such as bullying and discrimination. The book underscores the importance of creating an open and accepting environment at home, and gives tools and resources for parents to educate themselves and their children about LGBTQ+ issues. All in all, this book is a valuable resource for parents who want to raise children who are allies to the LGBTQ+ community.

Digital Materials

Fulton County Library

“Two Dads, Two Moms: Gay Couples and Their Families.” Filmoption International (Firm). Kanopy, 2005, http://ucsb.kanopystreaming.com/video/two-dads-two-moms-gay-couples-and-their-families. Accessed 25 Mar. 2023.

“Two Dads, Two Moms: Gay Couples and Their Families” is a 2005 documentary film that explores the lives of children growing up in households with two same-sex parents in the US and Canada. The film features interviews with gay and lesbian parents and their children discussing their families and daily lives. Through their personal stories, the film sheds light on the experiences and challenges faced by LGBTQ families in society.

“Transgender Kids: Who Knows Best?” Kanopy, 2017, BBC. http://ucsb.kanopystreaming.com/video/transgender-kids-who-knows-best. Accessed 25 Mar. 2023.

“Transgender Kids: Who Knows Best?” is a 2017 BBC documentary that examines the experiences of transgender children and their families. The film delves into the debates surrounding the best ways to support and affirm transgender youth, including issues related to medical interventions, social acceptance, and parental support. Through interviews with medical professionals, activists, and families, the film provides a nuanced and thought-provoking exploration of gender identity in children.

“Between Friends and Family.” Dillwood, Richard Jacob. Infobase, 2014, originally released in 2013.

“Between Friends and Family” is a 2013 documentary film directed by Richard Jacob Dillwood. The film explores the journey of a known sperm donor and his lesbian friends who became parents through artificial insemination. The film follows their story over several years, delving into the complexities of modern family structures, the legal and social challenges faced by LGBTQ families, and the bonds of friendship and love that transcend traditional definitions of family.

“Gender Revolution: A Journey with Katie Couric.” National Geographic Digital Media. Kanopy, 2017, http://ucsb.kanopystreaming.com/video/gender-revolution-journey-katie-couric. Accessed 25 Mar. 2023.

“Gender Revolution: A Journey with Katie Couric” is a 2017 documentary film that explores the complexities of gender identity. Hosted by Katie Couric, the film features interviews with scientists, activists, and individuals who identify as transgender, intersex, and gender nonconforming, shedding light on the social, cultural, and political implications of gender and transgender children. Through personal stories and scientific research, the film offers a nuanced and thought-provoking exploration of gender in contemporary society and answers questions like “What do you do when your seven-year-old son announces that he wants to be a girl? Or your husband of 30 years announces that he wants to be a woman?”

“Transbeauty.” Access Video On Demand, Films Media Group, 2017, https://avod.infobase.com/PortalPlaylists.aspx?wID=19598&xtid=187399. Accessed 25 Mar. 2023.

This episode of “Transgender” features the story of Lisa, a contestant of the most prestigious transgender beauty pageant in the world. The episode features the story of how she made it in the pageant world, as well as interviews with her family, displaying the support of her parents. 

Local Libraries

Photos were not available for “Dykes Planning Tykes” and “We Are Family: Parenting and Foster Parenting in Gay Families“

“Spoiler Alert” Apple TV. (2022, December 2). | Apple TV [Video]. Apple TV. https://tv.apple.com/us/movie/spoiler-alert/umc.cmc.b1pfhixnlbslxj5ngz0wsaqi

“Spoiler Alert”, directed by Michael Showalter, is a film about the relationship of a queer couple, specifically, about how the couple navigates a terminal cancer diagnosis. The film explores how the couple deals with the thoughts of death ending the relationship, not being able to raise a family, and keeping love alive in the process. 

“Throwaway Teens.” Access Video On Demand, Films Media Group, 1999, https://avod.infobase.com/PortalPlaylists.aspx?wID=19598&xtid=11334. Accessed 25 Mar. 2023.

“Throwaway Teens” is a 1999 video about an ABC newswoman, Connie Chung, and her analysis of teenagers being rejected by their families after revealing themselves as queer to their parents. The clip includes interviews that speak on the ways that some children are forced to sustain themselves when homophobic parents displace their children from their homes. This video deeply explores the relationship between LGBTQ+ children and their families.

“LGBTQ – Acceptance: Joey’s Story.” Access Video On Demand, Films Media Group, 2017, https://avod.infobase.com/PortalPlaylists.aspx?wID=19598&xtid=145219. Accessed 25 Mar. 2023.

“LGBTQ- Acceptance: Joey’s Story” is a short film about the story of a boy named Joey. In the video, Joey comes to terms with the realization of his sexuality; that he is gay. It shows the way Joey navigated the unfair treatment he received in school, and much more crucially, the intolerance he faced from his father, mother, and eventually, grandparents. This video provides insight on the ways in which struggling with sexuality because of a lack of familial support affects children- leading them to view suicide as a solution. 

“Making Grace.” Access Video On Demand, Films Media Group, 2005, https://avod.infobase.com/PortalPlaylists.aspx?wID=19598&xtid=141981. Accessed 25 Mar. 2023.

“Making Grace” is a film about a lesbian couple that aspired to start a family together. The film explores the process of carrying out a surrogacy, finding a sperm donor, and becoming parents within the LGBTQ+ community. With the birth of their daughter, Grace, the film dives into the challenges of two mothers raising a daughter. The film also toggles with the process of explaining to children what it means to have “two mommies”.

“Coming Out of the Nkuta.” Access Video On Demand, Films Media Group, 2011, https://avod.infobase.com/PortalPlaylists.aspx?wID=19598&xtid=118354. Accessed 25 Mar. 2023.

“Coming out of the Nukta” is a documentary about a Cameroonian lawyer, Alice, and her journey in defending members of LGBTQ+ communities who have been rejected by their families as well as wrongfully accused by the law. This documentary shows the many lives that have been affected by familial intolerance of the LGBTQ+ communities, as well as how these people are targeted by the justice system.

National Organizations, from WorldCat

“LGBTQ Family: I Have Two Moms.” YouTube, AMAZE Org, 1 Oct. 2020, https://youtu.be/jgmBGkY_AHs. Accessed 25 Mar. 2023. 

The video “LGBTQ Family: I Have Two Moms” is accessible via Youtube and published by AMAZE Organization. AMAZE provides resources that work towards a world where child and adolescent sexual development is not stigmatized, but rather viewed as natural and healthy. They encourage adults in children and adolescents’ lives to be affirming and communicative about traditionally difficult topics to discuss. The video is a child friendly story about a young girl who was adopted by two lesbian mothers. The resource is helpful to explain how different families might look to children. 

Expressing Myself. My Way. Boyd, Dee, director. YouTube, AMAZE Org, 5 Oct. 2016, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ITRdvGnplLU. Accessed 25 Mar. 2023. 

This video “Expressing myself. My Way.” is an animated music video for middle grade children about gender identity expression, focusing on the use of clothing as a form of self expression. It is also produced by AMAZE Organization. It covers a range of gender expressions and emphasizes that it is a personal decision how you dress yourself. It would be beneficial for children to watch as they begin to develop a sense of self and uniqueness, or as they approach adolescence and begin to face judgment from peers and confusing changes in their own bodies.

“Dykes Planning Tykes: Queering the Family Tree.” Murphy, Rosalind. Women Make Movies, 2010.

“Dykes Planning Tykes: Queering the Family Tree” is a 2010 documentary film directed by Rosalind Murphy. The film explores the experiences of lesbian couples and single women who have chosen to have children through assisted reproductive technologies such as sperm donors and in vitro fertilization. The film offers an in-depth look at the emotional, social, and legal challenges faced by queer families, and the ways in which they are challenging traditional family structures and creating new forms of kinship.

Families Are Forever. Family Acceptance Project. Kleiman Vivian et al. directors. San Francisco State University 2013.

“Dykes Planning Tykes: Queering the Family Tree” is a 2010 documentary film directed by Rosalind Murphy. The film explores the experiences of lesbian couples and single women who have chosen to have children through assisted reproductive technologies such as sperm donors and in vitro fertilization. The film offers an in-depth look at the emotional, social, and legal challenges faced by queer families, and the ways in which they are challenging traditional family structures and creating new forms of kinship.

“We Are Family: Parenting and Foster Parenting in Gay Families.” Banks, Dasal et al. directors. Filmakers Library, 1988. Filmakers Library Online, http://www.aspresolver.com/aspresolver.asp?FLON;1655054. Accessed 25 Mar. 2023.

“We Are Family” is a 1988 documentary film directed by Dasal Banks and produced by Filmakers Library. The film explores the lives of three families with LGBTQ parents, including a lesbian couple, a gay male couple, and a transgender woman with a partner and child. Through interviews with the families, the film highlights the challenges and joys of LGBTQ parenting, including issues related to legal recognition, discrimination, and family dynamics. The film offers a rare and groundbreaking portrayal of LGBTQ families at a time when such families were still widely stigmatized and marginalized in mainstream society.